The departure time was 2pm. Car pooled in white Estima drove by hubby’s friend. There were 5 people including me and hubby. The journey was fine and quite fast as we reached the destination- Johor Bharu at 8.30pm. Hubby was so hungry and we straightaway went to Danga Bay to have our dinner – Ikan bakar!!
We decided to check-in at Tune Hotel near to Danga Bay area as this is an unplanned trip. Next plan was a night life at JB. So we’ve planned to watch live band at The Zon, Stulang. Unfortunately, the band was not so entertaining and the best part was we felt that we were in Hongkong.So, we’re back at the hotel and rest because tomorrow will be another journey of Jalan-Jalan Cari Makan time B).
10am, we checked out and have our light breakfast somewhere on the way to Kukup (I’m not really sure where it was). We arrived at Kukup at 2pm and it was just nice for us to really MAKAN and this time around was SEAFOOD!! Crab with salted eggs, crab with chili curry, lobster with black pepper, kailan with salted fish, butter prawns, fried rice and coconut drinks. Yummy!!
Then, the journey back is continued but we’ve stopped for awhile to have our sweet Durian Kampung dessert with mangosteen. The next stop was at Dengkil R&R which we were having waffles, sweet corn and KACANG REBUS!!
At last, the white Estima reached at Jalan Ferum, me and hubby dropped-off and here we are safely arrived home.
The interesting part during the short vacation, the FOOD at Kukup, the bright light and beautiful kites that we saw on the sky at night at Danga Bay (the cost per kite is RM300-500. So EXPENSIVE!!) and the illegal “affair” that happens in front of us…Erm…
Thanks hubby for another short and sweet vacation. Wonder what will be the next suprises…..
On 9th July 2011, me,hubby,Kak Yang and Abg G went to see Simplysiti Gala Night at DATC, UiTM Shah Alam.
This was actually a treat from me to hubby for spending our time during weekend. So, I bought 4 tickets from one of our beloved lecturer, Miss Mimi.
I am a fan of Dato Siti and this is a chance for me to meet her and watch the performance as I've got a good price and VIP seat for the night.
It was an enjoyable and unforgettable night as we have a chance to see Amy Search, Ana Raffali, Aizat and the funny and famous host, Faizal Ismail (FBI).
I had so much fun singing, dancing and laughing with family and friends. Thanks hubby for accompanying me.
Thanks to Kak Yang and Abg G for the delicious chocolates....;)
Btw, the 2 hosts of students from Arts, you should do your homework before hosting. It's really humiliating!!
On 8th July 2011, after I've finished my 2nd UTIPPS class, Hubby called me to ask me out for a high tea. So we went to SACC to have a drink. At first, it's only me accompany hubby to buy some shirts and socks for his collection. End up we went to a watch shop just to have a look what's new.
I was impressed with 1 bright, shiny and sparkling watch and asked hubby whether I can have it as a belated birthday present.
To my surprise, he agreed.
So, there it was, on my wrist, a brand new,shiny, bright, sparkling and bling-bling watch from my beloved hubby.
Today, 5th of July 2011, I have an appointment with a Gynae doctor. 3 weeks ago, I've been informed that I was pregnant. I am so happy so does my husband. We have plans, the names, the preparation, everything.
Then, the next week, I was bleeding and I went to see the doctor again. After the scanning, the doctor said that the womb is still there and she gave me prescription to make the womb stronger. She did advised if the bleeding continues and there's a small flesh coming out, I need to see the doctor immediately.
Alhamdulillah, so far there's none of it. I'm still hoping that I was given a chance to become a mom. So, there's still a hope, when last night I felt the pain and the bleeding became worse. I went back to the doctor and scan again.
According to the doctor, my womb is shrinking and most probably it'll abort. She advised me to refer to the hospital for further check up.
There goes my hope and happiness. I know, we can try it again and again. Although the plan of having baby is suppose to be later but another part of me,I do want this baby.
So, now I am waiting for my husband to come back from work and bring me to the hospital. I am crossing my fingers and pray to Allah that everything's gonna be ok.
To my beloved hubby, thanks for always being by my side and accompany me for check up. Your existence and spirit is my strength darl...
Well, actually this is an educational blog during my 1st semester of university but I guess I just continue the writing here.
Last weekend, 2nd of July we went back to Hubby's home town together with hubby's friends and family. Its about 4 cars and we've planned to do BBQ.
There were so many fresh fishes, crabs and prawns. We cooked and the master chef was Abg Jamil. The first menu was dried chilli crab and fish curry. It was so delicious and we were so full as we ended up our late dinner with Durian as a dessert.
The next day, we went to the market to plan for another menu for lunch. This time around, hubby brought me riding the motorcycle around kampung. I've been there before, a few times but I really enjoy the moment as we really spending romantic time together.
The last menu for lunch just before we travel back home were ikan haruan masak lemak cili padi, daun meranti lemak putih, tempura prawns and vegetables. For the dessert, sweet mango.
We left the chalet around 4pm, unfortunately, there's an accident along the journey and we stuck in a jam for an hour and safely arrived home at 8pm.
Thank you hubby for a simple and sweet holiday. The most important is the time we spend together.... Credit to Abg Jamil's family and Nan's family.
“Dan barang siapa membunuh seorang yang beriman dengan sengaja, maka balasannya ialah neraka Jahannam, dia kekal di dalamnya. Allah murka kepadanya, dan melaknatnya serta menyediakan azab yang besar baginya” (an-Nisa’: 93).
Mira di dalam dilema memikirkan destinasi yang bakal ditujui seterusnya. Air mata mengalir laju mengikut rentak tren komuter yang bergerak di dalam terowong gelap. Fikirannya tentang Rizal yang meninggalkannya setelah menerima berita bahawa Mira berbadan dua hasil dari perbuatan mereka yang hanyut dengan nafsu dan cinta. Dari stesen Subang Jaya ke Petaling jaya, tangisan Mira tak henti-henti sambil memegang perutnya yang sudah kelihatan sugul. Sekali lagi Mira teringatkan Rizal dan akhirnya sudah mencapai satu kata putus, lantas dia mengeluarkan pemetik api dan tahu destinasi yang akan ditujuinya. Dan esok, kandungannya bakal dikenali ramai dan mendapat liputan luas di dalam akhbar-akhbar diseluruh Malaysia.
Masalah pembuangan bayi semakin berleluasa malah bukan sahaja menggugurkan bayi namun mereka juga menggunakan cara yang kejam untuk menghapuskan bukti tersebut iaitu dengan membakar, mengkisar, membuang di dalam sungai dan yang paling tidak diterima akal dipotong dan diberi kepada binatang untuk menjamu selera. Persoalannya kemanakah perginya nilai kemanusiaan itu? Adakah wajar hukuman berat membendung gejala membuang bayi? Sekiranya iya, apakah jenis hukuman yang wajar dijatuhkan ke atas manusia yang bertopengkan syaitan ini?
Hukuman yang sedia ada sebenarnya adalah tidak mencukupi atau efektif bagi menangani masalah ini. Setelah kami selidiki dan membincangkan isu ini, satu bentuk mekanisma ataupun hukuman yang lebih efisyen perlu dipraktikkan didalam menangani masalah yang semakin menular di dalam masyarakat kita pada masa kini. Bagaikan barah yang merebak setiap hari, ianya sama seperti kes pembuangan bayi ini. Sekiranya, ia tidak dibendung dari akar umbi, nescaya gejala ini akan menyebabkan berlakunya gejala-gejala lain timbul dan merosakkan lagi akidah umat manusia.
Hukuman-hukuman berat perlu dilaksanakan dan dalam masa yang sama masyarakat perlu diberi pendedahan dan didikan dari awal bagi mengatasi fenomena ini dari terus berterusan. Disini disenaraikan beberapa hukuman berat yang wajar dilaksanakan:
1. Hukuman sebat di khalayak ramai 2. Rejam sampai mati (bagi yang sudah berkahwin) 3. Pesalah dicop dengan besi panas di dahi tanda beliau pernah melakukan zina 4. Perlu memohon maaf dikhalayak ramai (melalui media massa) 5. Hukuman penjara 20 tahun dan dalam masa yang sama kompaun RM100 000 6. Renjatan elektrik di khalayak ramai
Dalam masa yang sama, pendedahan dan didikan awal juga dipraktikkan bagi mencegah amalan ini. Antaranya:
1. Melaksanakan hukuman-hukuman berlandaskan hukuman Islam (hudud) 2. Menghapuskan semua pusat-pusat pelacuran dan hiburan 3. Penzinaan diselesaikan dengan cara Islam 4. Hukuman yang dilaksanakan perlu lebih telus 5. Kempen akidah yang wajib disertai oleh semua remaja lepasan PMR selama 3 bulan 6. Ibu bapa diwajibkan menghadiri kursus didikan dan bimbingan anak-anak 7. Masyarakat perlu dididik cara untuk berhadapan dan mengatasi masalah ini (melalui media massa) 8. Subjek agama Islam dan sivik di sekolah perlu ditekankan, didalami dan dipelajari dengan meluas serta di implikasikan di dalam norma-norma kehidupan.
Kesimpulannya, gejala pembuangan bayi perlu dilihat dari pelbagai aspek. Masyarakat tidak seharusnya menuding jari dan memfokuskan kepada gejala ini semata-mata tetapi haruslah menyelidik dan mengenal pasti punca berlakunya gejala ini. Oleh itu, hukuman berat dan didikan haruslah bergerak seiring seperti irama dan lagu yang tidak boleh dipisahkan.
“MARILAH BERSAMA-SAMA MEMBANTERAS GEJALA INI AGAR KITA TIDAK DIPERSOALKAN DIKEMUDIAN HARI”.
Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.
LOVE, is defined as a very strong feeling of affection. It makes you smile & cry, happy & gloomy, energetic and even lunatic. You can’t describe the feelings or even understand what it’s really are until you feel it, face it and heartbroken with it. I can’t talk about anyone of you, it may have some mislead of information. I can’t talk about them, it has too many characters to talk about it, and, it’s all about YOU, who have the courage to know about me, to sacrifice for me, to fight over me and to be with me as who I am and what am I to you.
Yes it’s YOU! Why YOU? And the story goes…..
It started in the year of 2007, YOU chose me to be your travel agent for your badminton team. The destination was, Taman Negara, Pahang. A day before the trip, it was a Valentine’s Night (14th February 2007), you asked me out for the first time. Although it was not the 2 of us (we went out together with your friend), but this is the time where we got to know each other better. We went out again, the next day, and this time, it was only YOU and me.
16th February 2007, it was the trip, which I was supposed to be the tour guide but I didn’t go since that was my last day of work before I join to another organization. The weird thing was, I am started to miss YOU. YOU called me at 2am in the morning and we were on the phone for 2 hours. It was for 3 days and 2 night’s trip and YOU missed my birthday on 18th February. The best part was, YOU were the first person to wish me and once YOU are back in town from the trip, YOU were so eager to meet up with me. Blue Levi’s jean was the first present from YOU on my birthday.
From travel agency, I’ve moved on to logistics field. I thought it was the end of our story but I was wrong. It makes us closer to each other as YOU are in the same field too.
The relationship goes stronger when each and every day, early in the morning, there will be a sweet sms greeting from YOU. And each and every day, late at night, there will be a goodnight wish from YOU. We went out almost every day and I never felt bored or tired every time I am with you.
People said there are ups and downs in a relationship. Yes it is! After 2 years of fertilized loved, I’ve realized I can’t be with YOU although I am deeply in love with YOU. The voices and the insistence from family, friends and even enemy make us apart from each other. I was then decided to leave YOU as I can’t handle the pressure.
Am I happy? NO! Yes, It was my decision but it’s really make my heart broken into pieces. I was vulnerable, hopelessness and emptiness without YOU.
What YOU are to me? YOU put a smile on my face by giving me flowers and card in front of my door when I went home from work. YOU embrace my soul with your surprised kiss at the traffic light when we went separate ways to work after having lunch together. YOU hug and talk to me softly when we are in the middle of the fight. YOU never give up on me and our relationship in making it happens. YOU believed that we are meant to be together and there’s no such thing as “Love is not necessarily end up of being together”. YOU put me first on a row in your daily life, routine and your priority. YOU hold my hand in whatever situations are (good and bad). YOU feed me food with your own hand and said that it is a symbol of your love. YOU never complains on how sweet the drink I’ve made for your breakfast, the improper shirt that I washed and iron, when I was asleep and YOU are still awake, when I forgot to wash your socks and YOU don’t have socks to go to work and the list went on and on.
What am I to YOU? YOU said, I am your angel. YOU said I am your princess. YOU said, without me, your world is incomplete. YOU said YOU never feel so in love before I’ve came into your life. YOU sacrifice for me by leaving behind people around YOU. YOU fight over me and stand up for me. YOU said whatever it takes, you’ll make it through and you’ll make it happen. True enough, YOU take me as part of your life and give me the status as your wife. And today, 6th April 2010, YOU, my beloved husband, confessed that I am the 1 and only person that YOU love the most.
YOU are Zolkifli Saffar, my beloved husband, the one who knows me better than anyone else and who promised to never let me down and love me for the rest of your life. The rings were exchanged and it was written “I am yours” and “Finally, you are mine” will be the vows of two hearts become one. Till death do us apart, Insha’Allah.
"Nobody thinks it will work, do they? You just described every great success story.-Say Anything, Lloyd Dobler and Diane Court"
