Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Ciss Bedebah Syaitan!!!


“Dan barang siapa membunuh seorang yang beriman dengan sengaja, maka balasannya ialah neraka Jahannam, dia kekal di dalamnya. Allah murka kepadanya, dan melaknatnya serta menyediakan azab yang besar baginya” (an-Nisa’: 93).


Mira di dalam dilema memikirkan destinasi yang bakal ditujui seterusnya. Air mata mengalir laju mengikut rentak tren komuter yang bergerak di dalam terowong gelap. Fikirannya tentang Rizal yang meninggalkannya setelah menerima berita bahawa Mira berbadan dua hasil dari perbuatan mereka yang hanyut dengan nafsu dan cinta. Dari stesen Subang Jaya ke Petaling jaya, tangisan Mira tak henti-henti sambil memegang perutnya yang sudah kelihatan sugul. Sekali lagi Mira teringatkan Rizal dan akhirnya sudah mencapai satu kata putus, lantas dia mengeluarkan pemetik api dan tahu destinasi yang akan ditujuinya. Dan esok, kandungannya bakal dikenali ramai dan mendapat liputan luas di dalam akhbar-akhbar diseluruh Malaysia.


Masalah pembuangan bayi semakin berleluasa malah bukan sahaja menggugurkan bayi namun mereka juga menggunakan cara yang kejam untuk menghapuskan bukti tersebut iaitu dengan membakar, mengkisar, membuang di dalam sungai dan yang paling tidak diterima akal dipotong dan diberi kepada binatang untuk menjamu selera. Persoalannya kemanakah perginya nilai kemanusiaan itu? Adakah wajar hukuman berat membendung gejala membuang bayi? Sekiranya iya, apakah jenis hukuman yang wajar dijatuhkan ke atas manusia yang bertopengkan syaitan ini?


Hukuman yang sedia ada sebenarnya adalah tidak mencukupi atau efektif bagi menangani masalah ini. Setelah kami selidiki dan membincangkan isu ini, satu bentuk mekanisma ataupun hukuman yang lebih efisyen perlu dipraktikkan didalam menangani masalah yang semakin menular di dalam masyarakat kita pada masa kini. Bagaikan barah yang merebak setiap hari, ianya sama seperti kes pembuangan bayi ini. Sekiranya, ia tidak dibendung dari akar umbi, nescaya gejala ini akan menyebabkan berlakunya gejala-gejala lain timbul dan merosakkan lagi akidah umat manusia.


Hukuman-hukuman berat perlu dilaksanakan dan dalam masa yang sama masyarakat perlu diberi pendedahan dan didikan dari awal bagi mengatasi fenomena ini dari terus berterusan. Disini disenaraikan beberapa hukuman berat yang wajar dilaksanakan:


1. Hukuman sebat di khalayak ramai
2. Rejam sampai mati (bagi yang sudah berkahwin)
3. Pesalah dicop dengan besi panas di dahi tanda beliau pernah melakukan zina
4. Perlu memohon maaf dikhalayak ramai (melalui media massa)
5. Hukuman penjara 20 tahun dan dalam masa yang sama kompaun RM100 000
6. Renjatan elektrik di khalayak ramai


Dalam masa yang sama, pendedahan dan didikan awal juga dipraktikkan bagi mencegah amalan ini. Antaranya:


1. Melaksanakan hukuman-hukuman berlandaskan hukuman Islam (hudud)
2. Menghapuskan semua pusat-pusat pelacuran dan hiburan
3. Penzinaan diselesaikan dengan cara Islam
4. Hukuman yang dilaksanakan perlu lebih telus
5. Kempen akidah yang wajib disertai oleh semua remaja lepasan PMR selama 3 bulan
6. Ibu bapa diwajibkan menghadiri kursus didikan dan bimbingan anak-anak
7. Masyarakat perlu dididik cara untuk berhadapan dan mengatasi masalah ini (melalui media massa)
8. Subjek agama Islam dan sivik di sekolah perlu ditekankan, didalami dan dipelajari dengan meluas serta di implikasikan di dalam norma-norma kehidupan.


Kesimpulannya, gejala pembuangan bayi perlu dilihat dari pelbagai aspek. Masyarakat tidak seharusnya menuding jari dan memfokuskan kepada gejala ini semata-mata tetapi haruslah menyelidik dan mengenal pasti punca berlakunya gejala ini. Oleh itu, hukuman berat dan didikan haruslah bergerak seiring seperti irama dan lagu yang tidak boleh dipisahkan.


“MARILAH BERSAMA-SAMA MEMBANTERAS GEJALA INI AGAR KITA TIDAK DIPERSOALKAN DIKEMUDIAN HARI”.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

The Secret Revealed...

I hate the way you talk to me

and the way you cut your hair.

I hate the way you drive my car;

I hate it when you stare.

I hate your big dumb combat boots

And the way you read my mind.

I hate you so much it makes me sick.

It even makes me rhyme.

I hate it -- I hate the way you're always right;

I hate it when you lie.

I hate it when you make me laugh;

Even worse when you make me cry.

I hate it when you're not around

And the fact that you didn't call.

But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you --

Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.



LOVE, is defined as a very strong feeling of affection. It makes you smile & cry, happy & gloomy, energetic and even lunatic. You can’t describe the feelings or even understand what it’s really are until you feel it, face it and heartbroken with it. I can’t talk about anyone of you, it may have some mislead of information. I can’t talk about them, it has too many characters to talk about it, and, it’s all about YOU, who have the courage to know about me, to sacrifice for me, to fight over me and to be with me as who I am and what am I to you.

Yes it’s YOU! Why YOU? And the story goes…..

It started in the year of 2007, YOU chose me to be your travel agent for your badminton team. The destination was, Taman Negara, Pahang. A day before the trip, it was a Valentine’s Night (14th February 2007), you asked me out for the first time. Although it was not the 2 of us (we went out together with your friend), but this is the time where we got to know each other better.
We went out again, the next day, and this time, it was only YOU and me.

16th February 2007, it was the trip, which I was supposed to be the tour guide but I didn’t go since that was my last day of work before I join to another organization.
The weird thing was, I am started to miss YOU. YOU called me at 2am in the morning and we were on the phone for 2 hours. It was for 3 days and 2 night’s trip and YOU missed my birthday on 18th February. The best part was, YOU were the first person to wish me and once YOU are back in town from the trip, YOU were so eager to meet up with me.
Blue Levi’s jean was the first present from YOU on my birthday.

From travel agency, I’ve moved on to logistics field. I thought it was the end of our story but I was wrong. It makes us closer to each other as YOU are in the same field too.

The relationship goes stronger when each and every day, early in the morning, there will be a sweet sms greeting from YOU. And each and every day, late at night, there will be a goodnight wish from YOU. We went out almost every day and I never felt bored or tired every time I am with you.

People said there are ups and downs in a relationship. Yes it is! After 2 years of fertilized loved, I’ve realized I can’t be with YOU although I am deeply in love with YOU. The voices and the insistence from family, friends and even enemy make us apart from each other.
I was then decided to leave YOU as I can’t handle the pressure.

Am I happy? NO! Yes, It was my decision but it’s really make my heart broken into pieces. I was vulnerable, hopelessness and emptiness without YOU.



What YOU are to me?
YOU put a smile on my face by giving me flowers and card in front of my door when I went home from work. YOU embrace my soul with your surprised kiss at the traffic light when we went separate ways to work after having lunch together. YOU hug and talk to me softly when we are in the middle of the fight. YOU never give up on me and our relationship in making it happens. YOU believed that we are meant to be together and there’s no such thing as “Love is not necessarily end up of being together”. YOU put me first on a row in your daily life, routine and your priority. YOU hold my hand in whatever situations are (good and bad). YOU feed me food with your own hand and said that it is a symbol of your love. YOU never complains on how sweet the drink I’ve made for your breakfast, the improper shirt that I washed and iron, when I was asleep and YOU are still awake, when I forgot to wash your socks and YOU don’t have socks to go to work and the list went on and on.



What am I to YOU?
YOU said, I am your angel. YOU said I am your princess. YOU said, without me, your world is incomplete. YOU said YOU never feel so in love before I’ve came into your life. YOU sacrifice for me by leaving behind people around YOU. YOU fight over me and stand up for me. YOU said whatever it takes, you’ll make it through and you’ll make it happen. True enough, YOU take me as part of your life and give me the status as your wife.
And today, 6th April 2010, YOU, my beloved husband, confessed that I am the 1 and only person that YOU love the most.



YOU are Zolkifli Saffar, my beloved husband, the one who knows me better than anyone else and who promised to never let me down and love me for the rest of your life. The rings were exchanged and it was written “I am yours” and “Finally, you are mine” will be the vows of two hearts become one. Till death do us apart, Insha’Allah.


"Nobody thinks it will work, do they? You just described every great success story.-Say Anything, Lloyd Dobler and Diane Court"



Monday, March 8, 2010

Nature's Call



Hey city folks!! Do you have a hectic schedule? Go out early in the morning to work, crawling on the road and arrive home late at night just to avoid the traffic?
Stop for a while and treasure the beauty of nature; close your eyes and imagine with me. Let's feel the serenity of chirping birds, sounds of waterfall, fresh breeze, cold weather and braces of water. It's refreshing!

The Adventure Community Centre, Sukabumi, Kendong, Negeri Sembilan brings you back to nature. It is located approximately 120km from Kuala Lumpur, to the south of Peninsular. This is the right place for appeasement, picnic, affordable holiday and even for adventure activities.

Adventure Community Centre was owned by Paximej (M) Sdn Bhd, which operation office is located in Seksyen 13, Shah Alam. The place offers adventure with forest garden experience. Besides, they are offering the packages for Team Building, Summer Camp, Meals and Dining function (Kampung Style), Adventure Race, Rain Forest and Stream Trekking, Mountain Climbing Expedition and Giant Tree Expedition.



With a place surrounded by nature, it is also furnished with facilities to accommodate various activities. There is a community hall for indoor activities, outdoor briefing area for "welcome drink”, recreational pool originally from the mountain, cafeteria of "masak lomak cili api style", toilets, aviary for bird lover, fish pond and BBQ area. Last but not least, the most wanted activity for those who like to show their talent, KARAOKE!



Thus, if you are planning to stay a night and feel the coldness of the weather, they do have Teratak Belantara for only RM70 per night, which can accommodate a maximum of 4 pax. For those who like to experience real nature, the camp site and tent rental rate is only for RM20 each per night.

For more info, log on to the website www.adventurecommunity.com or the contact details are as below:

PAXIMEJ (M) SDN BHD

Address
No 87A Jalan Snuker 13/28, Tadisma Business Park, Seksyen 13,
40100 Shah Alam,
Selangor
Malaysia Selangor

Tel No.
603-55120733 / 603-55128552

Fax No.
603-55106414

Email
paxi_mej@hotmail.com
paximej@gmail.com

What are you waiting for? Come on grab your backpack and experience it. Adventure Community Centre Sukabumi holds the promise of exhilarating experience yet fascinating.


"Waste not the smallest thing created, for grains of sand make mountains, and atomies infinity. ~E. Knight"


Friday, January 29, 2010

Me, Myself & I

The calendar was marked on 18th February 1982. While the clock struck at 9.12am and a baby girl was born in Segamat Hospital with the weight of 2.85kg. She is the youngest daughter of Mohamed Bin Hj Mohd Yusof and Siti Haminah Bt Bidin. They already have 4 kids (2 boys and 2 girls) and she is the youngest kid, so called “retired baby” for them, as Mohamed was an ex-army in Rejimen Askar Melayu Di Raja. While Siti Haminah, is a loyal full time housewife who follows the husband wherever they’ll been transferred.
The baby was been given a name as Mirdalinie Mohamed by her eldest sister Mastura Mohamed. This is where the story about me began.

STOP!

I don't want to talk about the history of my life, but this is a story about a girl named Mirdalinie. A girl who likes to dream, who loves to live in a world of fairy tale and enchanted by the words of "happily ever after".

It was started in year 2000 after the lost of my father in 1999; I managed to further my studies in Pre Law Matriculation for 1 and a half years in respect of my father's request.
Then, I pursued my degree in LLB until part three.
It was like déjà vu when my mother passed away in year 2003.
I was so vulnerable, naive and lost to lose my parents as it was a big impact to my life.
Although I have other siblings but they have their own family & life which i don't intend to burden them.

My life became miserable when I didn’t have much money to continue my studies. I applied for PTPTN but has been rejected. I even tried MARA loan and went to see the Deputy Director but again my application was declined.
Thus, inexperienced Mirdalinie chose to give up her studies and worked.

My first job was an Account Executive in one of the Advertising Company, N.Mutiara Advertising Sdn Bhd. My job scope was to secure new businesses by identifying potential customers and to promote effective Creative Concepts for Advertising Campaigns such as Corporate Advertising (Annual Reports, Company Profiles, Corporate Folders, Radio Ads, News Paper Ads, Magazine Ads and Billboards) and some below the line advertising materials such as brochures, flyers, invitation cards, posters and etc. I was working there for 2 years before my eldest brother offered me to work with his Travel Agency.

I was then working as a Sales Executive at Ramza Travel & Tours Agency Sdn Bhd for a year. My main duties were to secure new businesses especially government clients, to promote and sell travel packages and other services offered by the company, as well as to ensure continued customer satisfaction and company’s commitment towards service quality.

After a year of working, I’ve got a better offer by a Japanese logistics company located in Bandar Sunway, NNR Global Logistics (M) Sdn Bhd. The job required me to promote Airfreight, Sea freight, warehousing and total logistics provider. I’ve gained so much experience and working with Japanese taught me to work long hours and hard work. I’ve been given the opportunity to attend Malaysian Airlines System (MAS) training, customer service course and Import & Export Operational Training. I worked for 2 years before moving to a managerial level (other company).

The last position that I held before I decided to further full time in my studies was a Head of Marketing Department at Triways Logistics (M) Sdn Bhd. First, I was offered as an Assistant Marketing Manager. After 4 months of working with the company, I’ve been offered as a Head of Marketing Department. My job became widen as I need to supervised 2 marketing staffs and at the same time to do sales. I reported directly to the General Manager and I need to prepare sales reports for Management Meetings. This is where I learn and understand the process of work from the Management point of view. I’ve been working there for 9 months but there's plenty of knowledge that I've gained.

On 7th of November 2009, after knowing Zolkifli Saffar for 3 years, I decided to accept his proposal to become my significant others. We intended to do our solemnization first and reception will be in February 2010. He is the fatherly figured man that reminds me of my late father. His softness in advising me, the patient that he has to guide me and his encouragement to me, made me realized that although I am independent yet I need someone to act like a backbone to me and he is the one.

On the other hand, the working experiences of 5 years and 9 months taught me that, experience & education are very important in order to hold a very good position with a good pay in any organizations. This is because, if you start from the bottom, your journey is a long way to go which you have to climb every single steps of the path. While compared to the person who have the education, they can escape a few steps to go to the higher position, and experience is bonus to them.

I am lucky to have very good employers during my work tenure. When I applied to further my studies, I’ve got full support and recommendation letters from each of my employers.
At first, I was attended the interview for Public Relation but then I was offered to study in this course, MC227, Interpersonal Communication. It was a mix feeling of having the 2nd chance in my studies. I still remember every single word and advise that my parents told me. Even though it’s already 10 years of losing my father and 5 years of losing my mother but I feel like it only happens yesterday and the memory was still fresh in my mind.

I strongly believe that this is not the end of the road but a new beginning of my journey. There are so many things that I want to do in my life and so much pain from the past. Life goes on and I trust, with education and experience, I wish, one day, I will become someone that can be proud of and there will be a great future waiting for me.

This blog portrays me as a whole concept. The title of, "Like Sleeping on A Cloud- a Getaway to Success" describes my dreams of aiming high to reach the highest level that I can.
The URL of my name and my husband's name is the combination of love and red represent the vibrant inside me.

Thank you Allah for giving me the lovely husband who provides me his love, hope, care and try to make my entire dream comes true.

The gratitude also goes to our sweet lecturer, Miss Mimi for giving me the opportunity to express ideas educationally through this blog.

Last but not least, I would like to share the song that gives me inspirational and strength to overcome the obstacles as I believed it is a getaway to success. "World's Greatest" by R.Kelly:

I am a mountain
I am a tall tree
I am a swift wind,
Sweeping the country

I am a river,
Down in the valley
I am a vision
And I can see clearly

If anybody asks you who I am
Just stand up tall
Look 'em in the face and say

Chorus
I'm that star up in the sky
I'm that mountain peak up high
Hey I made it,
I'm the world's greatest
And I'm that little bit of hope
When my back's against the ropes
I can feel it,
I'm the world's greatest
(The world’s greatest, worlds greatest, forever)

I am a giant
I am an eagle
I am a lion
Down in the jungle

I am a marching band
I am the people
I am a helping hand
I am a hero

If anybody asks you who I am
Just stand up tall
Look them in the face and say

Chorus

In the ring of life I'll rain love
And the world will notice a king
When there is darkness I'll shine a light
And views of success reflect in me